Usuku lwansuku zonke luyindawo evamile yawo wonke umuntu. Kusukela eminyango yangaphakathi yendlu ngayinye, kuhlulwe ukufihlakala kwesikhashana, izinhlamvu esiyizo ziba yilabo abaqiniseka kakhulu ukuba khona. KANYE U-Anne tyler Unikela umsebenzi wakhe kulolo hlobo lokuzihlola okuphelele kakhulu, oluzalwa endaweni eyisisekelo yekhaya ngezigidi zezethulo ezingase zibe khona futhi nokho ekugcineni lwakhiwe njengokungaguquki lapho umuntu encishiswa abe yinkulumo encane.
Ukuqondana komzwelo kuletha lowomlingo wendalo yonke yezinhlobo zethu, nosizi nobukhulu bawo. Ngo ukusondelana i-tyler ephukile singazindla sisendaweni yetafula noma yokuphumula kombhede, isikhashana ngaphambi kokulala, embhedeni wethu onesizungu noma eduze komuntu owabelana nathi ngendawo yethu.
La U-Anne Tyler wobuciko Kuyi-manifesto yokusondelana, isithombe esihlala njalo semiphetho yokuhlalisana njengesisindo esiphikisana nesidingo sokuphilisana. Njengoba ufundiswe ngisho nakwenye indawo yamaQuaker, ngombono othile waleli gatsha lobuKristu eligxilisa yonke into emkhathini ongaphakathi, kuba lula ukuqonda lokhu kulandisa okungenangqondo.
Yiqiniso, ukuze ukwazi ukufinyelela umfundi ngokusondelana okukhulu kangaka, uzwela oludingekayo nabalingiswa luyabaluleka. KuTyler kuyindaba nje yokuqagela kwalowo mhlaba wangempela oseduze kakhulu okhiqizwa kuwo wonke amakhaya.
Izindaba ezizwela kakhulu zithuthele ekunensa kwewashi lasekhishini elizwakala ngemuva ngaphambi kokuthula kwasekhaya, ezicindezelayo ngezinye izikhathi noma eziduduzayo kwabanye. Izindaba ezimayelana nendida yokuphila nomuntu omthandayo, kuphela ngokudalula yonke into ayiyo umlingiswa ngamunye, ngokuhlanya kwakhe nezindawo ezimnyama, namathemba akhe nokukhungatheka, ngalolo thando olungakhula luvuthwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma lube namandla. ukuncika ngokuphelele.
Umbhali, ofana nalowo owayephila ngesikhathi sakhe, kodwa manje wanyamalala Maeve binchy, ubhala ngokubaluleke kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu lapho sibhekene nokubonakala kwazo okuncane, ngaphandle kwezindima noma ukuzivikela. Impilo eyenzeka ebunqunu bomuzi wethu.
Izincwadi Ezinconyiwe Eziphezulu Ezingu-3 zika-Anne Tyler
Izivivinyo zokuphefumula
Kukangaki sizwa leyo nto mayelana nokudonsa umoya kakhulu futhi ubale ufike ku-10? Ireferensi enhle yokuhlolisisa ukuphilisana nokusebenzelana nabanye abalingiswa abahlezi endlini yethu.
Ngoba yebo, akukho okuyiqiniso ukwedlula ubuntu bethu obungaphakathi njengenoveli lapho thina njengabalingiswa abakhulu sithatha khona izintambo zetulo elakhiwe izimpilo zalabo esibathanda kakhulu. Futhi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ngo-Ira noMaggie, umbhangqwana ovamile oye wavala ukushiyeka ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ofihle izimfihlo zawo ezingaziwa kakhulu ngaphansi komata bendlu.
Ukuba namaqiniso ezandleni zikaTyler kuwuhambo oludidayo kumfundi. Izaba nezizathu, amanga amhlophe, iqiniso lothando livezwa ukungqubuzana kwalo okujulile mayelana nencazelo yeqiniso yothando.
Umuzi walo mndeni ugcwele izinhloso zentando ugcina udalule lezo zinkinga ngokuchayeka ngokweqile eqinisweni. Ngamunye angase afune iqiniso labanye kuyilapho ezama ukufihla ingxenye yemizwa yakhe.
Inoveli eyathakasela ubuqiniso bayo obuphazamisayo, leyo esiholela njengabafundi be-voyeuristic emphumeleni wezimpilo ezizwakalayo endlini yomakhelwane bethu noma ezindlini zethu.
Isivakashi esinengozi
Kanjani UJoaquin Sabina, okubi ngokufa kothando ukuthi awufi. Ukulahlekelwa umntwana yilokho empeleni, umqondo ophelele wokusebenziseka kwayo yonke into. Futhi-ke, kule ndaba, inhlekelele iphetha ngokuthuthela ekuhlukaneni kwalabo abake baba nombuzo ofanayo esikhathini esizayo ngaphandle kwempendulo engenzeka.
UMacon noSarah bathola lowo mgodi wakwalasha odlulela kuzo zonke izimo ezibalulekile. USarah ushiya ikhaya kanti uMacon usele ne-oda lakhe nokucophelela kwakhe ukuze angene ohlelweni oludla konke oluthatha umzuzwana ngamunye wempilo yakhe.
Ukubonakala kukaMuriel, owesifazane obhekene nezinkinga zakhe ezithile futhi ophethe umndeni ngokuphelele emhlane wakhe, kancane kancane kuhlanganisa kwalasha okwakubonakala sengathi ungenakunqotshwa uMacon kuze kube yileso sikhathi.
Ukufundwa, okusekelwe kumthamo omkhulu wokuba nokwenzeka okungaphezu kokuziphatha, ukuthi awekho amathuba esibili okufa, kodwa uhlobo oluthile lwendlela ehlukile lungahlala lwenziwa kabusha. Inoveli ethokozisayo evela ebuhlaza, ibheke ekuqineni futhi ekugcineni ibheke enkululekweni yokwazi.
Umhlangano endaweni yokudlela ye-nostalgia
Kukhona abacwila obishini lokunqotshwa nalabo abagcina bethole iziqhingi abangaphumula kuzo ohambeni olubi lokuphelelwa ithemba. UPearl usenempilo eningi ngemuva kwakhe kunasemkhathizwe.
Iphuzu lokuziqhenya elingenakuphikwa limnika amandla okubhekana nezinsuku zakhe zokugcina futhi ujabulela ukuqoqa umndeni wakhe eduze kwetafula lapho othile ayeka ukuhlala khona eminyakeni eminingi edlule. Okubi kakhulu ukulwa uze uphelelwe amandla yilapho umuntu ekwazi ukukugxeka ngokuthi awenzanga ngokwanele.
Emhlanganweni womndeni ozungeze isibalo esinamandla sika-Pearl, izingane zakhe u-Cody, uJenny no-Ezra bakha umfanekiso wanoma yisiphi isimo somndeni. Phakathi kokubukeka nezingxoxo ezimnandi kakhulu, imizwa yokuthi okuthile kungase kwehluke njalo igcina ivela, igxile ekuhlulekeni nasekushiyekeni kumlingiswa owalahla lowo mndeni.
Kunzima ukugxilisa icala kumuntu ongasekho. Ukungabi bikho kucatshangwa kahle futhi izimbangela zifunwa kwenye indawo, kubantu abasala bephethe. Esitolo sokudlela sika-Ezra, lo mndeni uyahlangana futhi ukuze ujabulele futhi ulinde futhi ukuthi umuntu ongekho angene emnyango futhi aqhubeke nesihlalo.
