Izincwadi ezi-5 ezihamba phambili ezikhuluma ngocansi

Kusukela UDkt Ochoa ivele esikrinini ekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-90s ubulili nobulili baqala ukuhamba ndawonye ngezindlela ezidingekayo zokudalulwa okuthandwa kakhulu. Indaba yezocansi yathatha ubukhulu besikhala sezingxoxo nocwaningo (njengakho konke okuvela kuthelevishini). Into yayiyinhle kakhulu ukuyeka ukuqhatha kangangoba kube nokuphazanyiswa izinyanga njengabaFarisi yitit yomculi leyo ye Abafana, abafana, abafana.

Futhi-ke, bangane bami, esikhundleni sokuya ocansini kuqhubeke kube ikhabethe elimnyama elifanele ama-phobias angagxili kahle, ama-phobias aqeda ubuchopho, amaqhinga okuqamba amanga kanye nombono we-esoteric walabo abangadlanga umsila, ngoba lokho, ubulili baba isihloko esivulekile yenkulumompikiswano. Njenganamuhla kungaba uma ukuhlukaniswa kwezakhi kanye ne-nitrogen kuhamba kahle nge-omelette yamazambane ngaphezu kwe-anyanisi, (ngiyabonga, MasterChef).

Ukuya ocansini ezincwadini nakho kwahlangabezana nalolo shintsho olukhululayo. Ngoba into eyodwa ukuthi izincwadi ezivusa inkanuko noma ababhali bathanda UMarquis de Sade okungeke kube khona okusha ngakho, futhi kungenye into ukusondelana nocansi njengento yokufunda ezincwadini ezenza isayensi yalo.

Namuhla sithola izincwadi zocansi ngomsebenzi ofundisa kakhudlwana, wokungcebeleka noma wokuphindisela ngamathrendi amasha njenge-polyamory noma i-sologamia (okuyinto emkhakheni wezocansi ezohlala ingaphezu kwenkawu, kepha woza, kukhona okusunguliwe ...)

Lapha ngizoqoqa lezo ezibonakala zithakazelisa kimi. Siqala ngaleli zinga le-5 elingahle lihlupheke ngokuzayo ...

Owesifazane omubi. Inguquko ezokukhulula, nguNoemi Casquet

Akungabazeki ukuthi inguquko kwezocansi efuna ngqo lokho, ukugxila kwezocansi kumnyombo wobudlelwano babantu, idinga owesifazane owakhiwe ngokulingana okuphelele nendoda. Kuyalingwa ukucabanga ukuthi lokhu sekuvele kukhona. Kepha iqiniso lihlala limangaza likhombisa izingxenyana zalo eziphukile ...

Ukuqashelwa okusobala kokubi kuyakhulula ukubhekana ngqo nalowo obeka ilebula ethathwe ekuziphatheni okwakudala.

Owesifazane omubi uyabona ukuthi kungenxa kanembeza womqapheli osemsebenzini futhi ngokuziqhenya kwakhe ukhombisa ukungabi bikho kokucatshangelwa okuphelele kuleyo ndlela yokucabanga ebekelwe imigoqo. Inkinga ukuthi ama-corsets wokuziphatha asesitayeleni esinzima ukufihla ukufihlwa kwesimanjemanje. Ayikho inkululeko enkulu ukwedlula leyo eyenziwe emkhakheni osondelene kakhulu. Akukho okucebisa kakhulu umoya ngisho nomphefumulo njengokuthokozela ubulili obuphezulu nobungokwenyama.

Ngemuva kokubona i-akhawunti yakhe ihlolwe yi-Instagram nezwi lakhe lithuliswa kaningi, uNoemí Casquet wethula umyalezo wakhe onamandla ngale ncwadi: “Phakathi kwazo zonke izinto engingazikhetha, ngakhetha ukuba ngikhululeke. Uhambo engilwenzile ngaphakathi belungokuhlangenwe nakho nokufunda kimi. Lokho, okuhlanganiswe neminyaka yophenyo emkhakheni wezocansi ngiyintatheli, kungiholele ekubeni yilokhu engiyikho: owesifazane omubi. " Uyemukelwa kulesi sivumelwano, dade. Wamukelekile mfazi omubi.

Owesifazane omubi

Ubulili bamaDummies nguRuth Westheimer

Uma uyi-rookie, noma ngabe ukholwa kangakanani, ugcina ngokufunda ukuthi akuyona yonke into obucabanga ukuthi uyazi ukuthi iyiqiniso, ikakhulukazi endaweni efana nezocansi lapho umbono wezulu ngomunye ungaba yisihogo somunye umuntu uma ukuxhumana okudingekayo kungaphezulu impendulo ebalulekile yokupha nokuthatha ...

Ukuya ocansini kuyingxenye yemvelo yezimpilo zabantu, kepha sekungamakhulu eminyaka kusitshekelwe izinganekwane nezimfundiso zamanga. UDkt.Ruth Westheimer uqeda ubandlululo namanga kulawa makhasi futhi amnikeze ulwazi olunzulu njengodokotela wezocansi ukuze anikeze umfundi okhiye ukuze bathole injabulo enkulu ebudlelwaneni obungokomzimba. Kuyo uzothola konke okwaziyo ngocansi ngekhulu lama-XNUMX.

Ucansi for dummies

Kungani ucansi lumnandi? nguJared Diamond

Akukaze kube buhlungu ukuya kophakeme njengo-Jared Diamond ukubheka ubulili njengeqiniso lokuqala le-anthropological. Incwadi eyenziwe yaba uhlobo lwe-vademecum yeqiniso locansi.

Kungani abantu bengenye yezinhlobo ezimbalwa ezenza imikhuba yazo yezocansi ngasese? Futhi kungani benza ucansi noma yiluphi usuku lwenyanga nonyaka? Kungani abesifazane kungukuphela kwezilwane ezincelisayo ezedlula ukuya esikhathini? Kungani ipipi lendoda likhulu kangaka ngokungenasidingo?

Le mibuzo neminye ebalulekile ithola impendulo yayo ngokubukeka uJared Diamond ephonsa impilo yezocansi yomuntu, ehlukile kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezilwane.

UProfesa we-physiology, i-ornithology kanye ne-geography, futhi owine umklomelo wePulitzer, uDiamond unokuqeqeshwa okuhlukile namandla okufunda ukufaka le mibuzo. Ubulili babantu bekuyinto obekucwaningwa ngayo emashumini ambalwa nje eminyaka, futhi abuzibandakanyi ekuhlolweni kwelabhorethri. Kodwa-ke, uDiamond ukwazile ukusebenzisa ukuqonda kwakhe kwezesayensi kanye namahlaya akhe emandleni athinta ukuziphendukela kwemvelo athonya ubungqayizivele bethu bezocansi, futhi akhombisa ukuthi banikele kangakanani kuleso simo esiyingqayizivele sobuntu.

Kungani ucansi lumnandi?

IVagina Book, ebhalwe nguNina Brochmann

Cishe ayikho inganekwane enkulu kulo mhlaba ukwedlula yonke into ethinta isitho sangasese sowesifazane: ama-G-spots, ama-orgasms akho, i-clitoris yakho. Izitho zangasese zowesifazane yilezo zinto ezingaziwa kakhulu kodwa ezicatshangelwayo ezinkulu kakhulu zomhlaba wesilisa. Futhi, ngokwalokho okubonwa kule ncwadi, kungase futhi kuveze izimanga kulabo babanikazi bayo abadidekile abalokotha basebenzise lo msebenzi wokuzitholela wona.

Ngingathanda ukukubeka kucace ukuthi ufuna ukubona ngaphambi kokuqala noma ikuphi ukuphathwa ngokobulili ngalolu daba, kungcono ashiye lokhu okuthunyelwe. Uma umbhali ekhuluma ngokusobala ngalesi sidudla, ungalindeli ukuthi ngibe yisikhokho, ngendlela efanayo yokuthi uma ngibuyekeza incwadi emayelana nepipi nabangane bayo ababili ...

I-physiology yesitho sangasese sowesifazane ihlukile futhi iyinkimbinkimbi, ama-hormone asebenza kuyo futhi ngayo, yini enye emakhulwini eminyaka enganqunywa njengoba kukhishwa "amahlaya" ahlukene omzimba. Kwakungeke kube ngenye indlela ukuthi ubulili balesi divayisi bube nokuhlukahluka kwama-nuances namathuba. Isihloko senkanyezi, njengoba bekungeke kube ngenye indlela uma kukhulunywa nge-pussy, i-clitoris. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungochwepheshe ngokuphelele balo mzimba omncane onenyama (ngokwencazelo, akuyona into yami), ngena kulabo abakucacisayo kulawa makhasi...

Kepha uNina usitshela nangokuchayeka kwalesi sitho ezifweni ezijwayelekile zomsebenzi wezocansi nokuthi kuthinta kanjani ukwethulwa okuqondile kwezinto ezahlukahlukene zokuvimbela inzalo ... Kusobala futhi ngokusobala, hamba.

Imithi, izifundo, okuhlangenwe nakho, ukuhlanganiswa okuphelele kolwazi okulandiswa ngendlela ejabulisayo nelula. Futhi yize ezocansi zithola isisindo esithile, akuyona inkinga enkulu yencwadi. Ukwazi isitho sangasese kudlula le nkulumo yezocansi. Ngakho-ke, futhi kunconyelwa ikakhulukazi ukuthola ulwazi olungcono ngokusebenziseka (futhi kuvezwe ngendlela emnandi kakhulu) yalowo mgudu obalulekile noma isitho sangasese, umongo wokuphila kohlobo lwethu ...

Incwadi Yabesifazane

ISexperimentado, kaNayara Malnero

Enye yalezo zincwadi zokufundisa ezithokozisayo zesikhathi sokuqala ohambweni lokuqalisa lokuphila konke. Kunconyelwe abantu abasha ukuthi bahlangane ngemoto yezocansi eyabiwe ...

Ukufuna ucansi iyincwadi yakho. Umsebenzi oxazulula konke ukungabaza kwakho ngocansi ngendlela elula nengokoqobo. Futhi mhlawumbe unemibuzo eyinkulungwane eyodwa ngokuqondene nokuthi yini ubulili ongalokothi ubuze abazali bakho noma abangane bakho.

Uma kungokokuqala ngqa, ungazizwa ungaphephi kancane noma uzwe amahemuhemu akwehlisayo. UNayara ukuphendula ngaphandle kokuphambuka, ngqo. Ngayo uzothola umzimba wakho nowomfana noma wentombazane oyithandayo, futhi izokuqondisa, ngaphandle kwezincazelo ezingadingekile, ukuze ulwazi lwakho lwezocansi (noma olwakho) lube mnandi futhi luphephe. Izokunikeza nezinkomba zokukusiza uqonde kangcono ukuthi kwenzekani emzimbeni wakho nasemizweni yakho, nokuthi ungayiveza kanjani, isibonelo, kubazali bakho noma kubangani bakho. Ungacabangi kabili futhi uzame!

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