Ukuba ngumqhubi wenqwelomoya kunye nombhali kuya kuhlala kuthathelwa ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kuncwadi ukusukela UAntoine de Saint-Exupéry Kubhale iNkosana eNcinci. Kubonakala ngathi kufunyenwe ukuba oku kudlula emafini kuvelise indlela yokuphefumlelwa okanye i-muses.
Inqaku lelo UJames salter Ulandele ekuvukeni kobukrelekrele base-France kwaye wafumana umkhondo wokubhala apho anokuhlala khona ngengcinga ethile yabo benza ukubhabha esibhakabhakeni umsebenzi wobungozi.
Bobabini uJames kunye no-Exupéry baba ngabaqhubi beenqwelo moya, ukusebenza okwakuthetha ukujongana nomngcipheko wokudutyulwa ngomnye umqhubi wenqwelomoya yedwa, ngethuba elincinci lokuphuma kulo mbandela bephila ...
Kukho indawo ekhoyo kulo mbandela ..., indlela yokujongana noloyiko kufuneka ukuba yenziwe ngaphakathi kunye nenqaku lokuqina. Isidlo sasebusuku sibhenele kwiintsomi. UJames Salter ugqibile ukwandisa ngokukhululeka malunga nezinto eziqhelekileyo, malunga nokuhamba okungaphaya kwale miphefumlo mincinci ibonwa njengeembovane ...
Uncwadi luyinto ethandabuzekayo, lufuna iindlela ezahlukeneyo ngokunikela ngento entsha okanye ukuveza into abanye abangazami kuyibonisa. Amava athile anokugcwalisa ulwimi lweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo.
Ngamafutshane, bobabini u-Exupéry kunye noSalter bawahlangula amabali abo emafini kwaye bagqibela ngokuqinisekisa izigidi zabafundi, nganye inendlela yayo yokuxelela umhlaba kwiimitha ezili-10.000 eziphakamileyo.
Iincwadi ezi-3 eziphezulu eziCetyiswayo nguJames Salter
Iminyaka ekhanyayo
Kumqhubi wenqwelomoya, ocingelwa ukuba atsale umdla wobuchwephesha kunye nomngcipheko, ukuthetha ngomtshato kubonakala ngathi kukuphambuka komntu ongaqhelekanga. Kuyinyani ukuba le noveli, eyabhalwa ngo-1975, yayingakhange ibhengeze inqanaba lokuzibophelela umbhali anokulifumana kunyaka olandelayo noKay Eldredge. Umtshato wakhe wangaphambili unokukhokelela kule noveli engathandekiyo ngomtshato.
Kwaye nangona kunjalo, umqondiso wobomi njengesibini owawubandakanya i-Light Years uya kugcina uguqulela umtshato ozayo kunye neziqhamo. Ingongoma kukuba kule noveli sidibana noNedra noViri, isibini esitshatileyo esineentombi, kunye nobomi babo bentlalontle kunye nokubonakala kwabo njengesibini esigqibeleleyo. Kodwa emva kweengcango ezivaliweyo, uYakobi usibonisa ubuthathaka bayo nayiphi na intlanganiso yothando yexesha elide.
Idealization inika indawo kwi-mania, umnqweno uthatha indawo yokungakhathali. Kwaye okwangoku, imalunga nokuzenzisa, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba apho ukwaphuka kunokuphelisa yonke into.
Ingxelo ekrelekrele esikhokelela phakathi kweengxoxo kunye neenkcazo ngezo zinto zingaqhelekanga zokuhlalisana apho sinokuba ngabona babalaseleyo kuthi kunye nabona babi.
Ixesha lihamba, ulonwabo lukhawuleza lufike, ukuhlala kwiimeko, abantwana. UJames Salter usasaza imiphefumlo yabalinganiswa abathile ukuze bafumane ubuqhetseba bokwenyani kwamaphepha.
Ngobusuku bokugqibela
Incwadi emnandi yamabali apho uJames Salter anika ingxelo elungileyo yobuchule bakhe bokuphatha iingxoxo kunye nokuthula. Le ncwadi kukukhangela i-alchemy, ukudibanisa eyona nto inamandla kunye nothando lwemihla ngemihla.
Phakathi kwamabali ahlukeneyo asixelela malunga nokuqhutywa komnqweno wesini, ukungcatshwa ngothando, ukuphoxeka kunye nentiyo, ukuphoxeka kunye nesithukuthezi. Kwaye njengesishwankathelo, ingcamango yokuba le ngcamango yokugqibela yesithukuthezi ngokusisiseko ayinakukwazi ukuthanda kwinguqulelo yothando enokufezekiswa.
Ulonwabo ngokuqinisekileyo luyi-orgasm, kodwa iziphumo zalo zobomi obufutshane ziyacaphukisa kwaye ziyimfuneko. Ukufikelela kwinqanaba elinamandla lothando kangangokuba kwahlala iintsuku, iinyanga okanye iminyaka kuya kugqibela ngokukugqwetha ngokupheleleyo.
Izinto zikhona ngokuchaseneyo kunye nothando, ngaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na enye into, kuthatha iidosi ezincinci zenzondo ukuphinda wenze imvakalelo ezukileyo yokuhlangulwa ngokwasemzimbeni. Amabali athetha ngokufa, ngokusondela kwako njengombono oqinisekileyo wothando lwabo sele beza kuhamba.
Andazi, iseti yamabali ahlukeneyo kodwa zona zibonelela ngombono ofanayo wokuthanda.
Konke kukho
UJames Salter uhlala eshiya i-aftertaste ye-autobiography. Yonke into engxamayo kwiimvakalelo inegalelo kumbono wehlabathi, kwicala lombhali. Kule meko lo mbandela ubhekiswa ngakumbi. UPhilip Bowman ngumqhubi wenqwelomoya ogqiba ukuthatha ezinye iindlela ebomini bakhe.
UFilipu uyazi ukuba usemncinci kwaye unophawu olungenakoyiswa ngumntu oqinisekileyo ngezipho zakhe, ufuna indawo yakhe njengombhali. U-Bowman uqala ukusebenzela indlu yopapasho, kodwa kancinci kancinci simbona ehambela phambili phakathi kwe-hedonistic kunye ne-elitist yoluntu lwaseNew York lwenkcubeko, isipili apho elona phupha le-bohemian laseMelika libonakaliswa khona.
UFilipu uzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okubi ngokwesini kwaye wonwabele iminyaka ethile elungileyo apho azuza khona udumo. Kude kube ufumanise into engekhoyo, uvakalelo olungaqhelekanga lwee-caress ezibandayo kunye nokuhleka okubuhlungu xa unyanzelwa. Ke ujonge ithuba ebomini bakhe, ufuna uthando lokwenyani, kwaye uzinikele ...
