M'buku lake labwino kwambiri, Malingaliro a Elsa imayambitsa zovuta zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo kuchokera pamutu womwe umavumbula kale zovuta zambiri panjira yakufikira kukhutira kwakukulu: chimwemwe njira yanu. Palibe chisangalalo chotheka popanda kuvomereza zomwe uli kuposa zomwe uli nazo kapena zomwe ulibe.
Ndipo kwenikweni ndiye lingaliro la neuralgic lomwe lazungulira ntchito yonse ya Elsa. Mabuku opangira zolemba, kuposa kudzithandiza okha. Malingaliro kuposa zotsutsana zosatsutsika.
Katswiri wa filosofi ndi ntchito ndi maphunziro, komanso wokonda komanso wophunzitsidwa nyimbo monga woyimba piyano, Elsa amatumiza kumverera kwa kulamulira kumeneko, kuleza mtima ndi kudzikonda komwe kumafuna mayankho ofulumira pa chirichonse masiku ano.
Mabuku ake ndi ang'onoang'ono amalingaliro a tsiku ndi tsiku, filosofi ya tsiku ndi tsiku, mwinamwake yopambana kwambiri ya filosofi mwaumwini.
Mabuku 3 olimbikitsidwa ndi Elsa Punset
Kampasi ya okwera bwato
Chithunzicho ndichabwino kwambiri, ngati kupepuka kwamphamvu komwe kumatipempha kuti tiwerenge tikufufuza kampasi yamkati yomwe imayenda ndi Kumpoto pang'ono kukhumudwa tonsefe. Nthawi zambiri timakhulupirira, ndizofunika koposa kukhulupirira, kuti luntha lathu, kulingalira kwathu kumatiwonetsa zowona za dziko lapansi.
Chomwe chimachitika ndikuti timabisa malingaliro. Chifukwa cha umboni uwu, kuyamba kuwerenga bukhuli kungakhale kutulukira kwakukulu. Buku loyamba la Elsa, mwa lingaliro langa, ndilobwino kwambiri. Titha kujambula momwe timawonera dziko lapansi, kuliphatikiza ndikulifotokozera m'buku labwino, lomwe nthawi zonse lidzakhala loyamba.
Chidule: Mukuzama kwachilengedwe chathu sitiganiza, Pepani. Ndife opangidwa ndi malingaliro. Kwa zaka mazana ambiri tinayesetsa kuwaweta, kuwatsekera m’mikhalidwe yadongosolo ndi yotsendereza ya moyo. Atayang’anizana ndi zonena zake, chosankha chinali kungosiya kapena kupanduka.
Pakadali pano tikukhala m'dziko lomwe limatikakamiza kuti tikumane ndi mayesero komanso zisankho zingapo ndipo tiyenera kusankha tokha, popanda maumboni omveka bwino, kuti ndife ndani ndipo ndichifukwa chiyani kuli koyenera kukhala ndi kumenyera nkhondo. Ufulu watsopanowu umafuna kupeza kampasi, ndiye kuti, ya maluso ndi zida zomwe zimatilola kuyenda ndi luntha lamaganizidwe kudzera munjira zosadziwikiratu za moyo wathu.
Bukhuli likufotokoza magawo osiyanasiyana a kukhwima maganizo ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu, osati monga munthu payekha, komanso pokhudzana ndi anthu omwe amapanga chilengedwe chathu: makolo, ana, okondedwa, ogwira nawo ntchito, abwenzi ...
Kulowa m'zaka za zana la XNUMXst, kutengeka, chifukwa cha zitseko zotsegulidwa ndi sayansi ya ubongo, kumatha kulembedwa, kumvetsetsa ngakhale kusamalidwa: ndiwo fungulo ku malo athu amitsempha, akhale ubongo, moyo, chikumbumtima kapena ufulu wakudzisankhira. Kudzidziwa wekha kumatipatsa mwayi wopeza zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo chathu, mkwiyo wathu ndi zowawa zathu kuti tizikhala mogwirizana komanso mokwanira ndi ife eni komanso ndi ena.
Chikwama chachilengedwe
Ndi mutuwu monga bambo ake Eduardo Punse, Elsa amafufuza gawo losawonongeka lamalingaliro ndikuwunikira kwake kofunikira kwambiri, kulumikizana ndi ena, kulumikizana ndi chilengedwe, kusintha pakati pa zomwe timamva ndi zomwe timalankhula.
Chidule cha nkhaniyi: Kodi kukumbatirana kumatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji? Kodi kulira kuli ndi phindu lanji? Kodi tingatani kuti tisinthe mwayi wathu? Kodi kugwera m'chikondi kuli ndi cholinga? Ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani kusweka mtima kuli kosapeŵeka? Kodi tingaphunzire bwanji kuchita mantha? Kodi timayamba kunama kuyambira zaka ziti? N’chifukwa chiyani timasilira? Kodi tiyenera kukhala ndi anzathu angati kuti tikhale osangalala? Kodi tingapewe kupanikizika mopanda chifukwa? Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna amasamala kwambiri kuposa mkazi ngati galimoto yake yaphwanyidwa? Ndipo, kupitirira chikwi chozizwitsa cha zakudya, pali zidule zamalingaliro kuti muchepetse thupi?
Elsa Punset amayankha mafunso awa ndi ena ambiri, opitilira muyeso ndi tsiku ndi tsiku, m'buku lino, lopangidwa ngati "kalozera kakang'ono ka njira zosiyanasiyana" zomwe zimayenda m'magawo amalingaliro amunthu ndi cholinga chotipangitsa kuti tisavutike kumvetsetsa zomwe zatizungulira, zindikirani.kufunika kwa maubwenzi athu ndi ena, zindikirani kuti pali zambiri zomwe zimatigwirizanitsa kuposa zomwe zimatilekanitsa, pezani njira zabwino zolankhulirana, kusamalira ubale pakati pa thupi ndi malingaliro, kuwonjezera kuyenda kwa chisangalalo chomwe tili nacho, kudzikonzekeretsa tokha tikwaniritse zoikika ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu ndikuthandizira ubongo wamunthu kuthana ndi chizolowezi chake "chochita mantha ndi kusakhulupirira kupulumuka."
Chifukwa, monga momwe Elsa Punset akunenera ndi mawu omveka komanso osavuta, kuti tisinthe miyoyo yathu ndi maubwenzi athu "sitifunikanso monga momwe timaganizira: chikwama chopepuka chimakwanira zomwe zimatithandiza kumvetsetsa ndikuwongolera zenizeni zomwe zatizungulira." Chofunikira kwambiri kuwongolera kumvetsetsa ena ndikuyenda bwino mu chilengedwe cha zomverera.
Wodala (chisangalalo njira yako)
Timaliza kusanja ndi buku lake laposachedwa. Cholinga chomwe chimafikira pamwambapa, chimangoyang'ana kumapeto komaliza kodziwa momwe tingadzisamalire, kutanthauzira chilengedwe, kutha kumvetsetsa ... chisangalalo chokhala ndi moyo.
Chidule: Zikuwonekeratu. Sizitengera zambiri kuti ukhale wosangalala. Ndipo kusesa mbiri yakale kumangotsimikizira izi. Kodi zikhalidwe zina zilizonse zomwe zidadutsa padziko lapansi pano sizinali zosangalatsa?
Chimwemwe ndimalingaliro amomwe mungasinthire bwino zomwe zilipo. Ndipo ndendende, zomwe zilipo tsopano ndizokhumudwitsa zambiri, maloto osatheka kufikika, zifanizo zadongo, zamakhalidwe opanda tanthauzo komanso malingaliro achikhalidwe, zaluso zotsatsa kutsata chisangalalo chakuthupi.
Inde, n’kutheka kuti ndife osasangalala kuposa chikhalidwe china chilichonse chimene chinadutsa m’dzikoli. Apa ndipamene buku latsopanoli la Delves: Happy: Happiness Your Way, lolembedwa ndi Elsa Punset. Sikuti ndimakonda kwambiri mabuku odzithandiza okha, koma sindikuganiza kuti ilinso liri. M'malo mwake ndi ulendo wopita ku zakale, ku nzeru imeneyo yolumikizidwa kwambiri ndi dziko lapansi ndi mikhalidwe ya munthu aliyense, malingaliro otalikirana kwambiri ndi dziko lino la kulumikizana, pompopompo ndi maumboni opunduka.
Kudziwa momwe makolo athu akutali angakhalire osangalala kungakhale kodabwitsa komanso kuwunikira za chisokonezo chomwe timayendamo. Ofotokoza bwino kwambiri za mphindi iliyonse ya mbiriyakale amatipatsa umboni wa kufunafuna chisangalalo kumeneko, kovutirapo nthawi zonse koma kosapotozedwa monga tsopano.
Mukadzilolera kuyenda uku, mudzakhuta zochuluka za chowonadi chokhudza chisangalalo chosadziwika bwino, chomwe chimakhalapo ndikukhala ndi anthu ofanana ndi chilengedwe, cha kupuma ndi kufunafuna mwayi wanu pakati pa ma providence, omwe ndi pita pomwe ungakhale womasuka pang'ono kuposa momwe uliri pano.
