Since the Dr. Ochoa appeared on the screen in the early 90s, the sexuality and sexology began to walk together in the necessary ways of the most popular disclosure. The issue of sex took on the dimension of a space for dialogue and research (like everything that appears on television). The thing was very good to stop being so big cats as to be disturbed months like Pharisees by the tit of the singer that of the boys, boys, boys.
And so, my friends, instead of sex continuing to be a dark closet conducive to poorly focused filias, brain-stunting phobias, pseudo-erotic tricks and even an esoteric vision for those who did not eat a tail, because that, sex became open topic for debate. As today it can be if the spherifications and nitrogen go well with the potato omelette in addition to the onion, (thanks, MasterChef).
Sexuality in literature also underwent that liberating transition. Because one thing is erotic literature or authors like Marquis de Sade for which there would be nothing new, and it is another thing to approach sex as an object of study in books that make science of it.
Today we find sexuality books with a more informative, leisure or even vindictive function for new trends such as polyamory or sologamia (which in the sexual sphere would always be more than a monkey, but come on, there is the invention ...)
Here I am going to collect those that seem interesting to me. We start with this ranking of 5 that may suffer variations in the future ...
Bad woman. The revolution that will set you free, by Noemi Casquet
There is no doubt that a sexual revolution that seeks precisely that, to center sexuality at the core of human relationships, needs a woman erected in complete equality with man. It is tempting to think that this already happens. But reality always surprises showing its broken seams ...
The explicit recognition of what is bad is liberating to confront precisely the one who puts the label assumed from an archaic morality.
The bad woman recognizes that it is for the conscience of the observer on duty and in her pride she shows the total lack of consideration towards that constricted and constipated way of thinking. The problem is that moral corsets are still heavily styled to contain the disguise of modernity. No greater liberation than that undertaken from the most intimate sphere. Nothing more enriching for spirit and even soul than the enjoyment of the most divine and carnal sex.
After seeing her account censored by Instagram and her voice silenced on multiple occasions, Noemí Casquet launches her powerful message through this book: “Among all the things I could choose, I chose to be free. The journey I made inside was an experience and a learning experience for me. That, mixed with years of investigation in the sexual field as a journalist, has led me to be who I am: a bad woman. " Welcome to this coven, sister. You are welcome, bad woman.
Sex for Dummies by Ruth Westheimer
When you are a rookie, no matter how much you believe, you end up learning that not everything you thought you knew was true, especially in a space like sexual where the perception of heaven for one can be hell for another if the necessary communication beyond the essential feedback of give and take ...
Sexuality is a natural part of people's lives, but for centuries it has been shrouded in false myths and taboos. Dr. Ruth Westheimer dismantles in these pages, prejudices and falsehoods and offers her extensive experience as a sex therapist to offer the reader the keys to obtain the maximum pleasure from a physical relationship. In it you will also find everything there is to know about sex in the XNUMXst century.
Why is sex fun? by Jared Diamond
It never hurts to approach an eminence like Jared Diamond to consider sexuality as a primordial anthropological fact. A book made into a kind of vademecum of the sexual fact.
Why are humans one of the few species that performs their sexual practices in private? And why do they have sex any day of the month and of the year? Why are human females the only mammals to go through menopause? Why is a man's penis so unnecessarily large?
These and other important questions find their answer in the look that Jared Diamond throws at the sexual life of the human being, unique among all animal species.
A professor of physiology, ornithology and geography, and a winner of the Pulitzer Prize, Diamond has an exceptional training and educational capacity to enter these questions. Human sexuality has been the subject of study for just a few decades, and it does not lend itself to laboratory experiments. However, Diamond manages to apply his scientific insights and his sense of humor to the fascinating evolutionary forces that shaped our sexual peculiarity, and shows how much they contributed to that unique condition of being human.
The Vagina Book, by Nina Brochmann
There is probably no bigger myth in this world than everything that concerns the vagina: your G-spots, your orgasms, your clitoris. The female genitalia are those great unknowns but even greater hypothesized of the male world. And, from what is seen in this book, it may also present surprises for those of the bewildered possessors of it who are encouraged to this exercise of self-discovery.
I would like to make it clear that he or she wants to see before starting any hint of sexist treatment on the matter, better leave this post. If the author speaks openly about the pussy, do not expect me to be squeamish, in the same way that if I reviewed a book about the penis and its two companions ...
The physiology of the vagina is diverse and complex, hormones act on it and through it, what in other centuries would be determined as different “humors” of the body are released. It could not be any other way that the sexuality of this device had a diversity of nuances and possibilities. The star topic, as it could not be otherwise when talking about the pussy, is the clitoris. If you think you are absolute connoisseurs of this small fleshy body (by definition, it is not my thing), venture to those who clarify it in these pages...
But Nina also tells us about the exposure of this organ to infections typical of sexual activity and how it affects the direct introduction of various contraceptive substances ... Clear and openly, go.
Medicine, studies, experiences, a whole compendium of knowledge narrated in a pleasant and simple way. And although sexuality acquires a specific weight, it is not a capital issue of the book. Knowing the vagina goes beyond this sexual expression. Therefore, it is also especially recommended for a better knowledge in the practical (and exposed in a very pleasant way) of that important duct or vulva, the essence of life of our species ...
Sexperimentado, by Nayara Malnero
One of those interesting instruction books for first timers on the initiatory journey of a lifetime. Recommended for young people to encounter shared sexual drives ...
Sexperimenting it is a book for you. A work that solves all your doubts about sex in a simple and practical way. And you probably have a thousand and one questions about what sexuality is that you don't dare to ask your parents or your friends.
If this is your first time, you may feel insecure or have heard rumors that overwhelm you. Nayara answers you without taking any detours, directly. With it you will discover your body and that of the boy or girl you like, and it will guide you, without unnecessary explanations, so that your sexual experience (or yours) is pleasant and safe. It will also give you clues to help you better understand what is happening to your body and your feelings, and how to express them, for example, to your parents or friends. Don't think twice and experiment!
